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The Nigerian Couples Award

No lie here, the Nigerian couple award is when the woman has a child.

From the movie review, I hope we get to that aspect where any child is a child. Deserves your love once you call He or She your own. Where are we today in the context of adoption. 


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Can a Nigerian wife even accept custody of her husband child with another woman, in good fate maybe. When it is reversed, can a husband?

'A child is a child, we don't know which child is tied to your prosperity'. Translate to Yoruba for better effects. My non-Yoruba speaker please, allow me.

Here is where we miss it. How many parents have outlived to "enjoy the fruit of our labour", that was the origin of the couple's award syndrome.

My first adage will be quoted when a husband pregnantes his concubine but when it is reversed the wife is sent packing. The second is why a typical white couple doesn't have the couple's award. It's a scam. I repeat.

The child will grow up securing his future like you did your parents. 



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